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Dogsitting during a pandemic

Around the Thanksgiving table, during the second year of the pandemic, our daughter and son-in-law announce their desire to travel to New Orleans. They wanted to know if we could dogsit for their three dogs, including Daisy, an abused hounddog and recent addition to the family. Familiar with the role, we agreed. What could possibly go wrong?

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Daddy Daughter Dance

When our good friend Becky offers to pay for dance lessons, I delight in being included. In addition to joining Jose and Annalyse at the Asheville Ballroom, I entertain a fantasy that I will tear up the floor during the daddy daughter dance with the crowd exploding at the end.

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Purging during a pandemic

For a depressed introvert like me, self-quarantine feels like a paradise even when you hear hoofbeats underscoring the Nightly News. I get to be alone with my wife, Melanie, who I love, binge TV, write, read books, ride out the Apocalypse with my soulmate, and get paid for my service by the government. What’s not to love? The idea of an unraveling purge makes the quarantine even better.

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Eulogy for my mom

On the twilight of a backyard party, I feel lost and helpless, crying and praying at the same time. And then it comes -- just what I needed at precisely the right time. Rising above a cacophony of tree frogs, crickets, and party voices, on a night when even a whisper carried, I hear my mother laugh.

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Building our Pagoda

Covid-19 hit a few months after we became empty-nesters, giving us both the time and resources to finally invest into a hot tub and a long overdue renovation of our deck.

I really want to honor your one and only request, I said to my wife immediately picturing myself next to her relishing the jet streams while watching football through an HD projector.

I was more than willing to make this sacrifice for such a loving wife.

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